from a technology standpoint. when you try to facetime someone, someone would have to on the other side and take the phone like an iphone the only way to do facetime, have to hide it. it didn't just go black, would have to put it in a pock and someone on the other side was intentionally keeping the screen dark and only hearing a female's voice, on the plot pretending to be this girl, talking on the phone with him on a repeated basis, but never once showing her face. >> tucker: it's possible he was a simple man with regard to technology i am a simple man so i have sympathy for him, but maybe he's a symbol of a generation used to conducting relationships, i'm using air quotes around that, with people online, and people they don't actually spend physical time with. >> alisyn: it's shocking to some of us who haven't lived in the facebook generation as long as some 20 year olds, this is happening more and more and people get to engaged to people they never met. and he explained to espn he tried to meet his girlfriend s